criterion10 wrote:This also becomes a fault, considering that such little time was spent on Phoenix's and Adams's relationship, which becomes rather significant by the end of the film, when it is presumed that they will begin a relationship of their own.
I didn't really get that impression.
I wouldn't say a relationship is off the table for them as far as the ending of the film is concerned, but I don't have the sense we're meant to presume that's where they're headed. It seemed to me like Theodore just wanted to reach out to someone whose physical presence he could really feel, and it also occurred to him that Amy would be going through a similar separation as him. I adored the poignancy of that ending, though, with the two of them just sitting in silence together, her head on his shoulder, communicating something to each other simply by being in the same place—an embrace of their humanity that neither of them could ever have with an OS. Nevertheless, they are looking into the sky together in apparent contemplation of all there is in the universe that they can't directly experience, an infinitely mysterious world that Samantha and Amy's OS (Abbie? was that her name?) are now exploring. It is in many ways a romantic ending, but I like that Jonze allowed it to happen without necessarily forcing the idea that Theodore and Amy are destined for romance together.
Otherwise, my only real reservations about this film largely match up to yours. I really liked it, somewhat against my expectations, since the trailer never looked very appealing and I tend to find Phoenix's performances far "busier" than I can tolerate (not a problem here at all, I thought he was great). I was similarly impressed with how fully realized the world presented in the film was, in everything from architecture to dominant color schemes to fashion, and in the technology being used.
Of course the film touches on many issues about how we interact with information technology, but it's far more about how we process our emotions, how we rationalize or justify them, and whether we really need to, whether our feelings ought to be intellectually legitimated. I didn't see the criticism that hearthesilence speaks of above at all; in fact, I was surprised and impressed by how non-judgmental the film is about Theodore and Samantha's relationship. Jonze really takes the idea at face value and tries to examine what this eventuality would actually entail in terms of interpersonal relationships and social stigma, but the film really only works if you believe in the central relationship, and Jonze knows he can't go too far in satirizing or making fun of it without undermining its emotional effect. For the most part he maintains this balance admirably. Only toward the end of the second act did I really start to feel like the film was losing focus (though he pulls it all together again before the end).
This may not exactly be a spoiler, but
am I correct in thinking that the only book in Theodore's apartment that is ever clearly identifiable in any shot is Nabokov's Pale Fire? It showed up at the right edge of a frame maybe about 1/3rd into the film, and for the rest of the time there was always a handful of brain cells in my head that were trying to establish some connection between that text and Her. I never really found one, but I did think it was interesting that despite Theodore being a writer, and hearing in dialogue late in the film that he likes printed books, his numerous book shelves are nevertheless extremely bare.
EDIT: I also want to say that I think Richard Brody raises some legitimate questions (just barely) about the unexplored consumer involved in
Her's world—I know I personally found it hard to believe Theodore's very "plugged-in" daily life was so free from advertising—but on the whole it sounds like he's describing a completely different film and projecting a great deal of technophobia onto it that isn't remotely apparent to me anywhere in the work itself. I'd be curious to hear from anybody else who may have also thought this film was a moralizing "cautionary tale." I can't think of anything further removed from what I got out of it.