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GringoTex wrote:Then what were her reasons for going to the dinner party? She has a new boyfriend who she fucks and who gives her money. He's quite the asshole. And she leaves her best friend bleeding in bed to make an appearance at the birthday of the boyfriend's mother who she's never met. I just can't grasp the motivation, other than to titillate the audience.
He gives her money – only, as far as I remember, on this one occasion - because she needs it to pay for Gabita’s abortion and the hotel room they’re staying in. You make it sound as though she’s a gold-digger, for which I don’t think there’s any evidence. To sum up their relationship as ‘she fucks him’ is not only reductive but inaccurate: in their first scene together, he promises her they’ll go back to his room after a few minutes at the party, which may well mean that he intends to ‘fuck’ her, and that this is what he considers their relationship to be essentially about (to be fair to him, a lot of students are like this, but it doesn’t help that the actors are a little old for their parts); and when they actually do retire to his room, it becomes clear from their conversation that if anyone is ‘fucking’ anyone, it’s him ‘fucking’ her, and not necessarily paying any attention to her request that he not come inside her. There's little or no evidence that she enjoys this aspect of their relationship. It’s strongly implied (if I read this correctly) that she has had to have an abortion before now, and this may well have been due to his irresponsibility as well as hers – but of course, she is the one who has to deal with the consequences, as she knows that despite his veneer of sympathy and understanding, he basically doesn’t want this stuff to intrude on his comfortable existence. (I’m being reductive as well here; I don’t think the boyfriend is just an ‘asshole’, and one of the strengths of this film is that it leaves a lot unsaid about the various relationships it depicts.)
So why does she go to the party? Because she cares about, if not loves, her boyfriend and she knows it’s important to him that she meet his parents. She does not go there to fuck him, or to ensure that he keeps fucking her.
More importantly, perhaps, she has a strong sense of her own inferiority in the eyes of her boyfriend’s very middle-class family. The mother’s made her a meringue; she’s expected to be there; if she doesn’t go, these people will think even less of her than they already do. She goes partly out of resentment, in a way, but more because she’s cowed into it. (This is incredibly true to life, from my own experience; the sheer power of the inferiority complex to get people to do things they don’t want to should never be underestimated.) When she gets to the party, she tries to call Gabita, but puts the phone down as soon as the boyfriend’s mother sees her. When she hears the phone ringing, she knows it could be Gabita, but doesn’t answer. This has partly to do with her relationship with her friend – which I’ll come onto in a second – but it's also about not wanting to lose face at the party. Even though there could be an emergency on the other end of the phone, the sheer social embarrassment is enough to keep Otilia glued to her seat – and it’s clear throughout the dinner party scene that she’s walking on eggshells with these people, who can be counted on to shoot her down for the least indiscretion (indiscretions include smoking and drinking in front of her elders, if I remember rightly?). The scene also shows how easily a situation like Otilia’s and Gabita’s can be swept under the carpet; etiquette alone is enough to stop Otilia from addressing that situation.
As to her abandonment of her friend… She’s probably – no,
definitely – quite resentful of Gabita, whose carelessness and irresponsibility at all stages of this affair have brought about nightmarish consequences for both of them. She probably wants to teach her a bit of a lesson, and if this makes her seem a petty and vengeful – good. People are like that. They go to extraordinary lengths to help each other and then make up for it by leaving them in the lurch. If you've never had, or witnessed, this kind of relationship with anyone, then you are a lucky man.
Otilia is also traumatised after her quasi-rape experience; maybe if she were in her right mind she would stay, but she can hardly be expected to be in her right mind. Nor is it surprising that she would rather be anywhere but in that room for a little while. And I would suggest that, after this experience, and considering what we learn about her relationship with her boyfriend at the party, she goes there in part because she really
really wants to give him a piece of her mind and dump him, which she effectively does. During her conversation with him, she says something like, ‘At least I could rely on Gabita to help me’, which suggests a solidarity between the two women – all the more interesting because it’s ambivalent – and also, perhaps, that Gabita
did help Otilia when she needed an abortion.
What part of all this do you think is intended to titillate the audience? You seem to suggest that this has to do with the ‘fucking’ that’s going on between Otilia and her boyfriend, but we don’t see this, and the dialogue concerning it is the opposite of erotic.
GringoTex wrote:By porn, I mean titillation for its own sake. The scene where the girls completely submit to the abortionist's rape fantasy -- where he's given the stage to preach to them, lecture them, dominate them verbally, and then rape them -- I found highly objectionable. The blond is headstrong -- she fights everybody in a position of power -- and then she succumbs to this rape fantasy with barely a protest. It's not logical and no different than a porn film set-up.
I guess it should be clear from what I said above that Otilia does not fight ‘everybody’ in a position of power – in fact, does she fight
anybody in a position of power? – and her submission to the abortionist’s demands is completely logical. They need his help, Gabita lied about how long she’d been pregnant, they can’t possibly raise the amount of money he’s demanding, and the only payment he will now accept is sex. With both of them. So they’ve got to. Gabita resists this, but Otilia, ever the realist, knows that there is no alternative.
You’re reading way too much into the doctor’s character. Earlier you called him a masochist, which I don’t think is indicated in the film; nor did I really get the impression that he got a whole lot of sexual pleasure out of shouting at these two women. He seems more impatient than anything else. From his point of view, his request is totally reasonable, and these are just two clients refusing to see sense, wasting his time. After all, he risks being put away for murder – why shouldn’t they just give him what he wants? There was an argument some time ago on this board about the ‘rape’ aspect of the film. But it’s not rape, and we don’t know whether his is a ‘rape fantasy’. These women need him to perform an abortion, and have to prostitute themselves to get it. A rapist is scary enough, but can be written off as sick, psychotic, compulsive, etc – this doctor is a respectable family man conducting a business transaction. The scene is all the more awful because the women have to
choose to agree to his terms.
Now I’m not well-versed in porn film scenarios, but I’m guessing this one would be pretty hardcore ‘niche appeal’ stuff. It’s not titillating, except by the most twisted stretch of the imagination. It’s scary and horrible and inevitable – and totally logical.
GringoTex wrote:At least in a porn film, you only have 5 minutes of set-up before the money-shot. This film gives you 45 minutes of set-up and then cowards away from the money-shot.
First you criticise the film for being ‘no different than porn’, then you complain that it doesn’t even fulfil the most basic criteria of pornography. It would be fair enough to say that Mungiu ‘cowards out’ by not showing the sex, and that this is somehow irresponsible; indeed, when Gabita hangs around outside the hotel room, this is (I think) the only moment in the film where we don’t see things from Otilia’s point of view, so it breaks one of the film’s guiding principles.
One reason the sex isn’t shown is precisely that it would have seemed exploitative, even pornographic. Another, more important one, has to do with the film’s overall aesthetic. I’ve seen very few films that are so good at advancing the plot while making it seem as though nothing is happening. The story told in this film could easily have been the basis for a dour little thriller, which was what I expected it to be, but instead there’s a wonderful feeling of inaction and inertia to the whole thing – the dinner party scene, of course, suggests a political dimension to this atmosphere, but for me it was just a brilliant evocation of what life is really like. Lots of films show nothing happening and call it ‘life’; in this one, a lot happens, but almost imperceptibly, un-dramatically. (I know the scene with the doctor is quite dramatic, but it still has that same directionless, non-narrativised (is that a word?) quality).
GringoTex wrote:As for the political implications of this film: you get a close-up of the fetus staring at the camera but nothing of the sexual pleasure that led to it. It's all very chaste. It's a Republican wet dream.
I’m not sure what your point is. Are you saying that by not showing the sexual pleasure, Mungiu is being overly (and polemically) negative and judgemental about abortion? In any case, I have to say I’m not too interested in, or knowledgeable about, the political side of the film. Mungiu himself has suggested that Romanian directors of his generation have the advantage over their predecessors that they can look back at Ceaucescu and the Romania of the 1980s with a sense of detachment, and tell stories from that period (this is based on a true one) objectively, without polemic. I guess many would say this
is a polemical film, but to me it’s just an incredibly powerful, authentic and human story.
As for the shot of the foetus – why not? Gabita’s had an abortion, the foetus is lying on the bathroom floor, Otilia has to dispose of it so she has to look at it – why not show us what Otilia sees? The mere presence of this shot doesn’t mean we have to slap a silly ‘Republican wet dream’ label on it. This is a film that shows rather than telling, and the problem I have with your take on it (and Armond White’s) is that it assumes a political intent behind the story which is actually far from clear-cut. Criticise it on aesthetic grounds, by all means – say that it’s boring or badly acted or technically incompetent, whatever – but it seems to me that if you take issue with it primarily on the basis of its politics, you’re very quickly going to lose sight of what’s actually up there on screen, and will eventually end up talking to yourself.