James Mills wrote:No need for condescensions. My implications were exactly what you guys are explicitly stating: that there's obviously something other than her attractiveness that gets to Driver, but why is it not explained? You don't think this character has seen other moms playing with their children? If this woman and her affectionate son broke the camel's back, why are the other straws of Driver's past alluded to? I think it's entirely too convenient to not be intentional.
My question to you was meant seriously.
I'm not even really sure what you're getting at here. Are you not personally attracted to Mulligan, and thus can't figure out why Driver is? Do people in your personal social life need to give soliloquies about people they're attracted to before you actually believe they're attracted to that person? Why is it such a hangup for you that Driver is attracted to Irene without an explicit reason?
Now that I think about it, the mere fact that we use the cliche car breaking down to connect these individuals is tongue in cheek proof to me that Refn is trying to point across the plot's lack of importance in this film. There are copious inconsistencies that you guys are seemingly choosing to ignore (why doesn't Nino and co. just take his money? Why doesn't the driver simply call the cops and explain that people are trying to murder him and this family for no faults of their own? Why isn't the driver's back story elaborated on to explain the necessary culmination of experiences that would suddenly entice him towards this human affection? How in the world does all of these coincidences happen in a matter of two weeks or less: Driver meets woman and dates her, woman's husband then gets out of jail, Driver gets new Nascar racing deal or whatever with a pair of randoms, husband gets into immediate trouble again while Driver just happens to be there, husband has to do a mission to repay his debt and Driver decides to help, Driver finds out that the whole thing was set up by the same randoms with the race car, Driver chooses to not take the money or call the cops, the randoms inexplicably choose not accept Driver's money...).
Again, some of these things are explained in the movie. Nino wants to eliminate Driver because Driver can tie Nino to the money, and he's afraid of what will happen to him as a result. And it's not at all hard to imagine why Driver doesn't want to call the cops - if you recall, he drives getaway cars during robberies, which is how he got the money in the first place!
Aside from that, most of what you describe as coincidences hardly sound like coincidences to me. It's not a coincidence that Driver met his next-door neighbor. It's not a coincidence that Shannon got a racecar deal with mobsters. It's not a coincidence that Driver decided to help Standard. It's not coincidence that Driver decided not to call the cops. It's not coincidence that Nino decided not to take the money.
By this logic, every plot point in every movie is a coincidence.