Michael wrote:Keep in mind I was about 13 or 14 when I first saw H&M, its "greatness" came mostly from Ashby's cool style. It was inventive and some moments were beautiful, my favorite being the one of Harold drinking inside his jaquar sliding through the pink-glow car wash. What I don't like is the dialogues. They all feel very forced, every word hanging in the air like lead. Hallmarky. Messages getting across way too forced, pushing into your face that they become very annoying. Even if the dialogues were completely erased, with Ashby's style and Cats' silly songs we'd still get the messages all spelled out anyway.
I disagree. I think that the "greatness" of this film comes from:
1. Ruth Gordon's enthusiastic performance. She exerts this wonderfully irrepressible charm that is a wonder to behold. She's never been better, IMO (yes, including Rosemary's Baby). She owns this film and her character acts as a lovely contrast to the mopey Harold.
2. Bud Cort's performance. I love the antagonistic relationship Harold has with his mother. She forces all these things on him: women, service in the military, etc. but Harold is having none of it. No wonder he's so pessimistic all the time. It finally takes someone like Maude who is so full of life to pull him out of his funk and show him that life is worth living and to live it to the fullest.
3. The dialogue is excellent. Especially, everything that comes out of Ruth Gordon's mouth. And it's not what she says per se that works so well but how she delivers it... with such gusto and passion. This film is brimming with passion. The script is also funny as hell with lots of hilarious exchanges, mostly, I find, between Harold and his clueless mother. Also, the bits between Harold and Uncle Victor, who is clearly insane.
4. Cat Stevens "silly" songs. Yeah, they're goofy but intentionally so and so earnestly delivered that I can't help but love 'em. I really appreciate that Cat Stevens is willing to put himself out there and really wear is heart on his sleeve with these songs and it works perfectly with the film as the perfect soundtrack for Maude. I think that it was a probably a welcome relief back then when the US was mired in Vietnam... which makes the film particularly relevant today as we are mired in yet another war. We could certainly use some of Maude's earnest zest for life.